Treat him like your pet

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Treat him like your pet


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IT is important to have a pet at some point in your life so you get some life lessons and learn to love unconditionally. Whether your pet is a dog or cat, at times it does stupid things or irritates you, but you will still love it.

Whenever you feed it or get home, it always brings a smile to your face with its behaviour. If only couples could bond with each other like a pet and its owner.

As humans, flirting with each other brings that sparkle in the relationship. It is a highly effective relationship initiation tactic. During relationship initiation, flirting is a highly motivated behaviour. In other words, people flirt in order to achieve or accomplish a specific goal. Before a relationship starts, these goals typically include to engage in sex, explore someone’s potential romantic interest and have fun.

No matter how many years you have been together, flirting must never stop. As much as you always entertain your pet, the same must happen in your long term relationship. This behaviour maintains the relationship, keeping it strong.

Flirting also appears to play a role in relationship functioning through its ability to actively maintain the high quality of a relationship and give assurances. It is a mechanism by which couples can show their love and remind their partners that they are invested in the relationship. While flirting might be used for fun when people are getting to know each other, in ongoing relationships, it appears to have a more significant purpose. Indeed, flirting may be one way that couples promote their own relationship satisfaction and commitment.

It is therefore the perfect tool to use as a reminder, to you and your spouse, of each other’s positive qualities. It assists to bring those butterflies back into a relationship. This is the time when you come to believe that your partner is the best and would never do anything wrong.

It is unfortunate that some people think they have to get naughty and flirt with someone who is not their partner. No, that is bad behaviour, better use that same energy flirting with your person as it comes with a lot of benefits.

A couple that flirts will add an extra spice to their relationship. This is better than assuming the relationship is moving in a positive direction. It is a very key factor in keeping the spark alive.

As a couple treat each other like pets. For example, how does your dog greet you every time you come home, you will find that your dog will always be cheerful. Cheerfulness is instrumental to a successful marriage.

The nice thing about flirting is that it is an explicit behaviour, which means that people choose to do it. It could be an easy intervention, a productive means through which individuals can attempt to improve their relationship quality. 

Flirting has always been a part of any relationship. Some people believe when you flirt within a relationship you will not make the union better. They think that it may be a waste of time. Healthy flirting is a different play. You may have come across people who state that flirting in a relationship makes little to no difference. This being the case, you may have decided not to flirt, but by so doing you are messing things up for yourself.

A long-term relationship, such as a marriage, can get monotonous in spite of how hard you try to keep it alive. Healthy flirting will allow you to get attention from your partner. This can be a great confidence booster as it will help you feel better about yourself.

The fact that flirting will make you happy is a good enough reason for you to do it. In fact, it will make you feel sexy and such feelings will always make you happy. Scientists have proven that when you flirt, the body releases certain chemicals such as adrenaline, serotonin, and dopamine. All these are happy chemicals.

When you flirt, there is a feel-good factor involved in that you will end up being more happy and cheerful about your current relationship.

When you are in a stable relationship and you are flirting, you will not have to worry about the experience later. For example, women tend to wonder “does he like me” or “is he going to call?” In this case, women are the most affected. If you are a woman and you flirt with your partner, you will not have to worry if they will call you or not. Insecurities will no longer be an issue since you will know you have someone that loves and appreciates you. You will also be better at appreciating the stability of the relationship.

If you flirt, you are likely to up your sexiness quotient. This is a build-up of positive energy.

If you have ever flirted with a stranger when you are single, you start to appreciate what you have when you flirt in your relationship. The reason being you do not have to follow the process that comes after flirting since you will be doing this within the relationship.

It is normal for people who have been in a relationship for long to start taking advantage of each other. At the same time, you may also take yourself for granted. Flirting can offer the spark required to motivate you to change jobs, join a new hobby class, lose weight or even start dressing up. After all, you will appreciate yourself more when you feel good.

When a relationship is healthy, flirting brings the couple closer together. For people who are looking to start a new relationship, flirting can be the beginning of their courting process. Just remember to enjoy the positive energy from a flirt and enjoy yourself.

It feels good to make someone feel good about themselves. Flirting will remind you that you can still have fun, joke around and laugh with your partner. When you flirt, you keep your relationship alive and growing.

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