Women’s Forum with Nhlalwenhle Ncube-Sithole
WHAT does it take to make your partner ‘cry’ during the adult game? It’s definitely a sign that you pressed the right buttons and were on top of your game. It is not being crazy to have that dream, but there should be a time when you make him have that uncontrollable pleasure where he screams. It should not be one sided where he is the one who always makes you cry, but do the same to him and he will respect you for that.
Men also want to be pampered and feel loved. All women want to be told how beautiful they are, men also want to be reminded how hot they are. This boosts their ego and just with those few words miracles will start happening at home. Men have self-esteem issues too, they also need affirmations about their appearance. When he tells you how beautiful you are, also return the favour. Being told you are beautiful makes your day, makes you smile the whole day and feel confident, same applies to him.
As a woman, you should bear in mind that you are not the only one craving a little romance.
Sometimes men want to feel like the ones being dominated. Have that special day when you are the one who makes the first move, push him against the wall, straddle and then grind him to climax.
When you are between the sheets, do not limit yourselves — moan, breathe heavily, and maybe even scream. They want to feel like they are doing a good job, and there’s nothing worse than someone who seems bored. When your partner sees how much you are free to express yourself, he will also do the same and making him moan will make you happy as well.
Rock each other’s world!
Also remember that there is no such thing called ‘dirty play’ in the bedroom. Men love oral sex.
Get outside your comfort zone.
Men rarely divulge their secret desires to the women in their lives and though everyone has different needs and desires there are some moves and attitudes that most men want. Bowl him over with a wild move.
Do something unexpected and wild when you both are at it. Something erotic that he will not be able to forget soon. Make your session stand out by coming up with signature moves.
Work on pleasuring him in different ways.
Change in speed, positions and pressure can really make the entire experience very different. Whether it is the foreplay or the actual act, if there is variety he will never really know what to expect and therefore it will help a great deal in revving up his senses.
Since women take time to get turned on, men love women who can take that responsibility off them so that he can actually get to work.
Though your man may love to do all that he needs to in order to get you aroused, he would definitely like it if you were already half-way there.
Somehow, the fact that you are already in an aroused state is a huge thing for him. For men it is a massive ego boost to know that you want him too. Surprising him with a spontaneous seduction act can really win him over. Don’t be scared to be naughty, do not hold back when you are with your man.
Yes, we know that you have this ‘good-girl’ image that you hold sacred. Men like to see this other side of you when you are not scared to break his ‘good-girl’ image of you.
They will never cause offence by actually asking you to do it. Just show him that you are really into him and want him as much as he wants you.
Have you ever wondered why you find married people cheating? Honest ones will tell you that whenever they are with their real partners they have limitations, but with an outsider they are free to do anything and not get judged.
Leaving something on your body, for him to remove can be very arousing. When you are at it, just make sure you are near a mirror so that you can see yourselves in action.
It can be hot. Get rough at times and he would love it if you let him know that you want it too. Bring out the beast in him and tell him you are having the time of your life. Sometimes men just want you to take over while he just lies down and enjoys. It is an ultimate fantasy for them.
Make it happen at home, press the right buttons.
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