Melt him with a massage

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NEVER underestimate the power of a touch!

Can you turn back the hands of time and go back to that moment when a handshake with him made you get wet down there. Yes, it was the power of the touch. He did not have to do much as even his fingers on your ears, not to mention other body parts, made you go wild.

Yes, we are talking about the power of a touch and massage. It is high time women stop their habit of rushing to give their husbands bath water whenever they complain of feeling tired. During such time, one has to manipulate the situation and give him a massage which will melt him.

I know some women who complain of being sexually starved as their husbands always complain of being tired. In every situation you need to know the buttons to press. A massage is the way to go and with that, he will definitely make you happy as well.

There is nothing more refreshing than a good massage after a tiring day at work. It can be a restart button for the day and when done sensually by a partner, it can turn out to be a pretty erotic affair. A massage is amazing, but unfortunately a number of people take it for granted. The bedroom life must be fun and with a massage you will never go wrong.

Engaging in fun and intimate foreplay is an awesome way for transitioning to great sex. One way to do that is to master the art of a massage and with more practice, you become good at it. Home massage is definitely different from that one you pay for. At home you will both be naked and that skin to skin contact brings pleasure and creates an appetite for sex.

A massage is a great way to build intimacy and trust in a relationship as well as build a stronger bond. It has also shown to increase levels of oxytocin, which is also known as the hormone of love. Touch also signifies: You are safe, I am here, you are not alone. Also know that touching and being touched have the same benefits and so the giver is also receiving the same benefits!

It has got some magical touch and it’s definitely not just an ordinary one. It brings some assurance that the other party really cares and you can always count on him/ her. A touch is a way of communicating and at times words are limited, but with a touch the intention is clear. Even when you fail to express yourselves, he melts and realises that he is loved.

I have heard a number of people complaining that they do not know how to massage. This is one area which does not need an expert. Even if you are an amateur, you can manage to master the basic techniques of massaging in no time. Apart from concentrating on stomach, arms and the back, make sure you cover the areas that are often ignored during a massage. For instance, the ears! Gently squeeze the earlobes between your thumb and forefinger and trace the lining of the ear. Proceed ahead to the other areas including the back of the knees, the soles of the feet, lower back, and the neck.

Even if you had paid for him to go for a massage somewhere, there are some ‘‘places’’ where only his better-half can touch and massage. A home massage then proves to be the best medicine because it has no restrictions and there is no such thing as NO GO area!

Even if you’ve never given a massage before in your life, it’s important to stay confident and relax. First touch signals a LOT so be confident and be on top of your game. Make him feel that the touch is a thousand words; you mean it and you are enjoying what you are doing. Let him feel your intention! Find your rhythm and breathe. If you are tense, they feel it too. Always bring out your creative streak and look for ways to make the massage as sensual as possible. You do not have to use your hands to massage everywhere (you have a tongue as well!), whisper sweet nothings and plant small kisses while massaging and you do not need to be dressed during the entire deed . . . there is so much you can do! When you are done with chest, shoulders and back, definitely proceed to the erogenous zones and let the game continue under the sheets!

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