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Go kinky this winter

11 Jun, 2021 - 00:06 0 Views
Go kinky this winter

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IT is never a bad idea to spice up things in the bedroom, to have “it” in a more enjoyable way. At times you need to go wild and try something new. So this time around try to go kinky in the bedroom and get each other crazy. Looking outside your comfort zone and being open to trying something new is really great!

Introducing kinky acts is never easy because each party fears to be judged harshly and at times being called names. But always remember that trying new things is key to developing your sexuality. You just have to take things step by step not surprise your partner by jumping into it without any discussions. As much as you prepare yourself, get him ready for the explosive match.

Remember that no one came out of the womb knowing the turn-ons and offs — it takes EXPERIENCE for those things to become apparent and so going kinky is just another way to explore sexuality and discover what feels good to you.

The first step to trying this is considering consent and conversation. The two Cs that evoke fear and boredom to some people. But they are super important to creating healthy and happy sex and relationships. Consent and communication are the most important aspects of any sexual activity, but particularly when exploring different sensations, engaging in unfamiliar play and creating new experiences. You must speak to your partner about limits, boundaries and desires.

This is all well and good, but the biggest challenge is starting a conversation about going kinky and avoiding it being the most awkward chat on earth. To make it simple, talk about what’s intriguing to you, about this kind of play and why you would like to try it.

Then progress to talking about specific interests and boundaries. Remember to talk at a rate that is comfortable for you and your partner and remember this is a rolling conversation. You don’t just chat once and grab your nipple clamps! Leave the conversation open and make sure your partner knows you are happy to talk further about your kinky sex ideas another time. This is a conversation that will be built over time, even as you begin your kinky play.

This chat needs a neutral space and not when you are about to hop into bed or have just had an argument.

Only talk when you are in a good frame of mind, be confident, be sober and be open. Don’t be a dictator!

When it comes to being kinky, you must do dirty talk. There can be nothing more sexy than when you about to reach the big O and your partner bends down and whispers sweet-but-dirty-as-hell-nothings into your ear.

Think outside the box of what would really drive your partner over the edge? What would make the intimacy better? What would make it explosive?

Try incorporating some spanking into your routine. Intentional impact play rather than just smacking your partner now and again can be a great step into kinky sex.

If you are a beginner explore with your hand first, then venture into using other things. Remember to start off light and work up to harsher, dirtier things as you find your fit. You could also incorporate biting and hair pulling if being rough is your thing.

There are many things that can make your sex life exciting — ropes, tape, soft bondage wrist cuffs, old ties and ripped bed sheets. The possibilities are endless and your fun can be too! Try kinky play by using some simple restraints.

Exploring the dynamics of dominance and submission can be a really erotic start to your kinky life. Restraints, blindfolds and sensation play are all ways you can give these roles a go to see what warms you down there better. And, do not worry if you do not fit exactly into one definition, as with everything else just go with whatever feels right for you and your partner.

Inside and outside of the bedroom role play can make for a better and more fun sex life! Adding costumes and toys into the mix can heat things up inside.

Role playing an actual encounter can add a vitality and excitement that helps keep relationships and play fresh and fun. Dominating behaviour never felt so good as when you are at the tip of the iceberg and you are told you cannot and will not do something. So No no no buts and no orgasm until they say so.

Having particular terms you and your partner use exclusively for each other and the bedroom can be super sexy. If being submissive is a turn-on try calling your partner “sir,” “mistress” or “master.”

Use the terms in texts throughout the day, or when out in public together, as a form of foreplay.

Try using some good triggers to initiate play. You can trigger arousal by words, touch or memories. This is especially good if you are in public spaces. Trust me you will not be able to contain yourself when you are walking around and your partner drops the *word* bomb and you know it’s on but no one else around has a clue.

Life is too short to be too reserved in the bedroom. Explore and go kinky and enjoy without any boundaries.

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