Don’t relax, maintain your sexiness

16 Apr, 2021 - 00:04 0 Views
Don’t relax, maintain your sexiness


Nhlalwenhle Ncube-Sithole

MARRIAGE is not based on looks, but it is worth looking your best and to maintain the sexiness that attracted your partner. You know being sexy is not all about looks, but the way you behave and talk. Remember those first days of your relationship, in summary you would just say, “My new bae is sexy.” Can you please maintain that and have great company all the time.

Every woman wants to stay attractive and sexy for her husband. Of course at times you get upset because you don’t look a certain way or don’t wear what you want to wear. Let go of unrealistic expectations of what beauty is. When it comes down to your husband, you have to remember that he decided to marry you because of who you are not because of how you look. The beauty that’s inside of you is the one that made him fall in love with you. So don’t forget that when you look in the mirror, not everyone can walk around looking like a Victoria’s Secret model, but that doesn’t mean that you are not beautiful. You can be your own kind of beauty and that is the best kind! When you look in the mirror, see your beauty. Speak life over yourself and over your body.

Tell yourself how beautiful you are, how pretty your lipstick looks on you, how awesome you did your hair and how great that dress looks on you.

Be your own cheerleader!

This will not only be great for your self-esteem, but will also give you confidence that your husband will notice, find attractive and sexy.

It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are on the outside. Real beauty starts in the heart. What is inside of you will speak louder than a beautiful face and a nice body. Let the inside beauty of your heart overflow so when your husband looks at you, that is the beauty and sexiness he sees.

Try to smile and laugh as much as you can when in the company of your husband. We have heard stories where some men become jealous whenever they see their partners smiling at another man. It is usually caused by that some women — when home they usually have long faces and never smile.

The truth is you look beautiful when you smile. I bet your husband loves to see you smile and to hear you laugh.
I know when you find yourself in the middle of a life storm it is hard to laugh and sometimes it’s even hard to smile.

But there is always a reason to smile. So do it more, smile often! Maybe the medicine that your marriage needs is for you to smile more and laugh together!

Just because you have been married for several years doesn’t mean that you have to stop flirting with your husband.

Trust me if you don’t do it, someone else will. When you flirt with your husband you make him feel wanted and men love that. Be playful, the time that you spend with your husband is time well invested. Such sexiness keeps the spark alive in your marriage.

Always take care of your body and shave everything that needs shaving.

Pyjamas are super comfortable and it is so easy to stay in them all day, especially if you are a stay-at-home mum and you have no errands to run. Don’t get in the habit of staying in your PJs all day. When you start your day, put clothes on and be ready to tackle the day. Take pride in how you look, even when you are at home. You don’t have to go all out, but at least wear clean clothes that fit you right and are free of holes. Your marriage is worth you looking the best. The right bra will make your clothes look better and will make you feel confident and sexy. If you have been wearing the same clothes for the past 10 years, then it’s time to change, update your wardrobe.

You don’t have to spend a lot of money on clothes in order to look great. You can find amazing deals and stuff on sale. Buy new colours, new prints, and new designs. Check out what is new and trendy. Buy clothes that are flattering for your figure and make you feel great. Don’t be scared of trying something new or different. If you spend 365 days per year with your granny panties, then you seriously need to work on this area. You will look prettier for your husband with sexy lingerie. There is sexy lingerie for all body types. The best advice is to buy something that is flattering and that fits you right. A little mascara and lipstick never hurt anybody. We are all busy, but all it takes is five minutes of your day to have you looking pretty and sexy. Take care of your skin and maintain the youthful look.

Also try to be sweet always. At times your partner can drive you crazy, but there is never a good reason for you to be ugly with him. Words of wisdom have it that a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Remember that there is power in words, they have the power to bring life or death to marriages. Always have a kind word for your husband, don’t nag. Say what you need to say without sarcasm and when you have nothing nice to say then it is better to be quiet. One of biggest secrets is treating him the exact way you want to be treated. Make sure that you are sowing what you want to eventually reap. So treat your husband the same way that you want him to treat you. Even if he doesn’t treat you the way that you want right now, keep sowing seeds of love, kindness and respect.

Sooner or later you will reap what you have sown.

No matter how busy your schedule is, your marriage should always come first. I know it’s hard when you have little children because they need your attention but you need to make time to be with your husband. Remember you are a wife first and a mum second. Make your husband a priority because your marriage is the foundation of your family.

Go out on a date, go for a walk, call him at work or on his way home and maintain the high standards of sexiness in the relationship.

Believe it or not, a great way to be more attractive to your husband is to compliment him. As humans we always tend to look at the negative, or at what is wrong. Be the wife that focuses on the positive. Your husband is not perfect, but look at all the great qualities that he has and let him know.

Compliment him all the time and stay positive. Nobody likes to be around negative people. There is a saying that says, “Distance yourself from negative people who try to lower your motivation and decrease your ambition”. Always look at the bright side and be your husband’s biggest fan.

Don’t forget, the most important way to be more attractive to your husband is to have a beautiful heart. Marriage is worth working for and please maintain sexiness.

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