Celebrate being a woman

09 Aug, 2019 - 00:08 0 Views
Celebrate being a woman


Nhlalwenhle Ncube 

A REAL woman is like a tea bag, you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.

Women are blessed and strong mammals, but unfortunately there are some who choose to ignore their strengths and rely on men for everything. When you give away your power, you will definitely be abused.

Let us support and appreciate each other as women. I believe in the woman who doesn’t need to hide behind her husband’s back and who believes that if you have problems, as a woman you deal with them, you don’t play victim, you don’t make yourself look pitiful, you don’t point fingers but you stand and deal with it. You face the world with a head held high and carry the universe in your heart.

Strong women know more than anything else that taking care of themselves is a must. She must not look upon anyone else to swoop in and save the day for them. They have been battle-tested and learnt what independence truly means. Strong women have never known what it is like to need anyone because they had to fend for themselves at a young age. Any strong woman you meet has had a few crappy hands dealt to her in life, but she’s risen above like the champion she is at heart, not allowing one misstep or misfortune to hold her down.

Strong women are fierce, courageous, resilient, and beautiful. They surround themselves with powerful women. Show me your friends and I will tell you about your future. 

Strong women do not look for relationships to save them. No, they learnt when they were children that no one would come to save them — they have to save themselves. 

They never had the pleasure of relying on anyone for anything, so why start now? The person there for them at the end of the day was always staring back at them in the mirror before they laid their head down at night, so they see no reason to give that duty to someone else.

In relationships, strong women do not view men as a means to an end — a way to become more financially or emotionally stable or to cure themselves of loneliness. They don’t have any ulterior motive to being with you, so you don’t have to worry. There’s a lot more security in a relationship with a strong woman because you don’t have to walk on eggshells around her in order to keep her happy. You don’t have to bring home a six-figure income to keep her satisfied, and you don’t have to babysit her emotions. 

There is both security and freedom in being in a relationship with a woman who needs no hero to save her. That is the reason nowadays men are more interested in professional women,  not the “Marry and Mantain” type of women.

Strong women know what they want and because of this, they don’t approach relationships the same way those who are just wading in the dating pool might. They dive right in and know their target long before they have even hit the water. In other words, these women have been hurt before and know what to look for in a mate. 

They have had experience with the types of people they DON’T want, so they know exactly what they do want. They don’t waste their life in dead-end relationships; if they feel the vibe with you, you will know. If not, she will let you know early on so you both don’t waste your time.

Real women also view relationships as equal partnerships. They don’t seek out a partner to get anything out of them, they seek someone in order to add value to their life. They only want someone who will lift them up, not drag them down. In the same way, they also wish to add meaning to someone else’s life and see the importance of both give and take in a relationship. A strong woman would never take more than she’s willing to give when it comes to love.

Strong women don’t need anyone to coddle them in life; they are perfectly capable of sorting through their own feelings. Because of their emotional maturity, it’s a lot easier to talk to them should a disagreement occur. In a relationship with a strong woman, things are dealt with in an adult manner, with respect and grace. These type of women don’t let their emotions get the best of them and always listen to their partner’s point of view without interrupting.

Strong women don’t need someone in order to feel better about themselves; they just want someone to celebrate all the wins in life with and someone to support and encourage them through the losses.

Trust is a big deal for a strong woman, because she doesn’t just hand it out. It has to be earned over a period of time and even then, she might still need some more time. 

So, if you have her trust, don’t do anything to lose it because you most likely won’t be getting that privilege back. If she trusts you, then she doesn’t worry about the friends you hang out with or where you go after work. She doesn’t get jealous of the other people you spend time with because she gave you her heart and knows you will protect it no matter what.

Strong women are not just looking for something casual. They don’t want someone just to keep them warm in the winter — no, they want someone who will withstand the seasons. Someone who will weather all the storms and climates with them. Strong women seek out serious relationships more often than others because they aren’t just looking for someone to love; they’re looking for a partner to complement them. They want a soulmate and nothing less.

A strong woman is only attracted to a positive, uplifting person because she’s been through a lot in her own life and doesn’t want someone who will drag her back into the dirt. She’s blossomed into a beautiful flower now and knows that flowers can’t keep growing without sunlight, so she runs from darkness whenever possible. 

She will always tackle problems with you, but won’t tolerate constant complaining and toxic behaviour.

A strong woman doesn’t need a man or woman to bring home the bread or give her life direction. She knows where she’s going and how she’s getting there, and nothing but the end of the world could ever stop her. 

She wants you to have your own life, too, so that you both have things you are working towards while being able to cheer each other on. In the same way that she has her life together, she only seeks out someone who also has clear goals and direction. In a relationship, a strong woman knows how to balance her fiery nature with her grace and wisdom in order to avoid taking total control of the partnership. 

A strong woman can take a relationship to new heights, showing the world how amazing love can truly be. Be a strong woman!

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